We know that by any means, we shouldnt let a kid and untrained dog be alone. When you said it doesnt shed, I wondered. One time he was reflecting. I was raised around dogs, cats, birds, turtles, and fish. As for our brains vs a dogs, oh my goodness. Its really sad because dog owners who do this never care about how anyone else feels or about their own cleanliness and surroundings. I love him and we have been together for almost three years and counting. and I mean FIGHT. This dog is horrible and is ruining my life. Dogs are happiest in a structured environment where they know who the leader is and arent in a constant state of unrest due to rank confusion. Like many people here I have always been a huge animal lover. Its gotten to the point of threats: harming them or killing them, and driving me to suicide, as I suffer from anxiety and panic attacks. And I can reach out and pet them or even snuggle them and still be in a dog-free bed with my boyfriend. And my dog is the only one that can get into trouble. It just is what it is. That is why Im so frustrated about my situation. I recently started dating a man who says that my dog is a demanding monster. Because he hates him please help. I think it helped to hear from someone else not in the relationship how ridiculous he was being basically choosing the dog over your significant other. I see a dark figure standing there and so does my dog. Im sick to death of dealing with this dog and am even growing resentment to my husband. They arent children or babies. His dog is disgusting!!!! Id volunteered to look after a friends puppy for them, a sweet 14 week old cocker/poodle cross. Like a lot of you, anything you put in your mouth she expected a piece of it. We still get married but live apart i ask?..his response was yeah i guess so but that really sux! IT has to sleep in our room or else IT will bark and complain. This is the exact way I feel. My husband and I have been living together for almost two years. I didnt know this when I met her but I thought she would have gotten more normal since she wasnt alone anymore and telling me she found the man of her dreams and how hard it is to meet someone like me but we would get into arguments about the bulldogs? My girlfriend, not the dog. They hate your dog. She pulled through, and I have never yelled or hit her again. hes 14 so it cant go on forever. A child deserves to be more important to his mother than a dog. But I am aware that he does not treat them equally and my dog has picked that up too. What a waste of my precious time over a bloody brainless mutt that would go with anyone that fed its face and let it be incontinent in public places. A pets companionship is not altruistic, unless it goes out and gets a job and helps contribute to the functioning of the home and is able to articulate advice to you on living life in this world as a human. So, you will need to attend the dog doggy socialization class. But I want to get your opinions, I want to know if how I feel is just insanity or am I being logical. I even had my dignity as a woman taken away from me at one point when my husband was ill and I walked into the living room to find the dog laying with her back against the couch and him laying on the floor facing her placing her rear legs on his side. Yes i knew that, but i didnt know it was so bad! Well I cant use yelling as a tool for behavior changes because it doesnt work long term and it is not in my nature to respond like that. We are talking about moving in together and everything else besides the dog is great, but Im thinking about not moving in with him because of the dog. My partner has changed, shes negative, bitter, angry. The longer you stay the harder it gets!! I keep telling myself that the novelty of having his dog back will wear off and he will soon be back to giving me the kisses and cuddlesbut its hard to sit back and wait till that happens, and what if the novelty doesnt wear off. My youngest cat was rescued and abandoned he almost a year old but follows me around and still tries to nurse on my finger. Please find a home or even a foster home for the dog, he deserves to be with a family that truly wants him! He gets crazy! Hes got them in the habit of getting a treat when they do their business. You live your own life and Ill live mine ^_^ Being human doesnt mean I have to cater to the emotional needs of you or others. Everyone has to put up with your dog but godforbid they talk out against it. The hamster is in my room. More and more lately if I move him somewhere he doesnt want to go. I was able to love the dog when I didnt have to do so much for her. I tell the dog no, but she just looks at me with clueless look and then runs crazy laps around the apartment. Just because he states its all shes known her whole life doesnt mean that she isnt supposed to learn. I get infuriated thinking about it. It barks constantly and urinates all over if not crated when no one is home and chews up my Gfs socks and underwear if given the chance. If you leave, it will hurt at first, it always does, as the movie Hope Floats has a very good line, Beginnings are scary, endings are usually sad, but its whats in the middle that counts. Here I am sitting down in our room then he goes and gets the dog a pillow. So, it should be done gradually and piecemeal. After the last two pass we needed to be dog free. me and my partner both had dogs before we got together , he had 5 me 2 . I just want to be able to go home after a long day at work, decompress, relax, and enjoy my life. Its quite manipulative on the part of the dog to arise as the alpha in the house unbeknown to its owner. During that time I was cheated on. A dog and a cat knows right from wrong. Shes also always hyper and jumps very high, the reason why this bothers me is because she jumps up to my daughters face and will scratch her by her eye or cheek not on purpose but because of her excitement . And as I said, it is not her fault for being so sheddy and stinky. I didnt dislike the dog till after my baby was born. My fianc told me that he is a special dog. Why isnt she by the window sniffing the air like other dogs? Lady your dog is leading your life. How on earth was I supposed to know that someone was going to treat their dog like an infantile god-being? I really despise this dog and she gets all the love and attention. Not loved his dog, he was in love with his dog. we lived together for a month, and her daughters 14 year old cat is obviously traumatized by the daughters constant absence. So if your relationship with your man is important, might I suggest you find temporary homes for your dogs, for a month or more, to give you both a breather and some quiet time with each other to work on a stronger relationship without any animal distractions. I Did the same. He ran and she chased him. so I dog sat once for the weekend and I love dogs as well but not the same undisciplined way some humans are with their dogs. ;-), I think its a big mistake to get involved with someone who has a dog if they hate hate hate fur! One of them is very dominant and a bully to the other one, most of the time, which can be very frustrating. With the new baby I am worried about when he starts crawling, well have to keep the dog kenneled all the time. Omg! Ive given up so much for my wife so she could have this dog and I love her and she acknowledges it, but she doesnt seem to understand how much this has hurt me. What happened to Rover retrieving the newspaper or slippers and just being happy laying at his/her masters feet? the ex trains him and ex tells me to leave. He used to sleep with both the dog and cat in bed before we lived together. It even watches us have sex and Im kind of bothered by it. It wasnt until about a year into our relationship that I started disliking this dog. Eight days after moving in, and without consent, she brought a Siberian Husky puppy in and this dog is still not trained. And that is the same sort of excuses I hear from dog owners all the time hes just not used to other people or thats just the breed or thats just how he is. And the rest of us are expected to put up with it. Im trying to work things out but he ignores me. They both are very jealous and possessive dogs! Do we need to find a compromise however? Besides her annoying habits such as constantly licking the floor, and herself, scratching any closed doors whenever she feels like it, etc, she was allowed by my husband to sleep in bed with us, even during my pregnancy while the smell of her would make me sick. I remember one time telling the dog to get off the couch to go get a treat from him in the kitchen, and his reply was She doesnt have to shes the queen! You have to word it differently than get rid of as these dog worshippers are very sensitive to that. If he is, unfortunately you will never win. Good luck. Youre better off without him and dont deserve that. Ummm. She insists that the dog sleep in the bed. Its so ****** up!! She will grab food off the kitchen table while my kids are eating. And honestly, I do feel bad for these animals because I dont hold their behavior against them. Since then we have communicated about what it is that makes him upset1. I dont necessarily agree that when you fall in love with a person you automatically know what youre signing up for I think there should be compromise in all relationships and when it comes down to it if its between your human significant other and your animal and you choose your animal youre going to live a lonely life because at the end of the day you cant have a full life with an animal you cant marry or procreate with an animal and if you truly love this personare you willing to throw it all away for an animal? I was fooled into thinking that my boyfriend could have become more into pets in the aftermath of something he deems traumatic to himself. My work laptop, INSIDE my work bag has hair in it. My cat (had before we met) is and indoor/outdoor cat. I have never felt so upset towards an animal. We tried create training and he broke the first one so we got a metal one. The dog is old and likely wont live another year. You sant a dog for you and could honestly care less about a future partner or the dog itself. I was second and the dog was always placed first. He does not take the dog for a walk, a bath the dog, or even have time to play with the dog. Today there is dog bakeries, day cares. I have had a sprained ankle for the past almost 2 weeks from trying to get her to come back in before work. I am the one to feed, let outside and forever try to clean up the urine from the carpet because one of the older dogs (13) is almost completely incontinent. She did not approach the man even when he was waving a 45$ Steak. He used to send me cat videos, say how cute to them, stroke them when we met one on the streets and so on. Her bulldog was 7 years old and they live 8-12 years and the other one was 5. At once, while moving along, you see your puppy, Breeds Starting With A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z, Contact Me | About Me | Privacy Policy | Disclaimer | Site Map. Seems like not! Dogs are your slaves, respect them, give them tasks, love them and ask that they maintain a respectful dog/owner relationship train them to love commands, train them to be dogs not people. That dog passed and we lived pet-free for about a year. Yet I find myself at the end of mine because as a human in a human relationship I cant understand why its so wrong for him to treat his dog like an animal. Something else I will be happy to discuss but dog H*** NO. he lies on her keyboard, on her paperwork, gets between us during intimate moments. Shes cute but not the small dog I wanted. And then the excuses is, but you know I had dogs! Weve kept him in a kennel before, but hes chewed on it and rammed into it with his head enough that its broken and he can break out. Small, low-shedding breed thats easy to train, adopting an older dog to skip the puppy months, paying for it and its needs myself, made sure it was clear the dog wouldnt be allowed on the bed, etc, etc. Chihuahuas love warm! My house smells like a kennel and is full of fur. And guess who has to clean up all the s***? Those dogs life expectancy is 12 years so in just gate things off etc. While her parents dont mind watching her dog, especially since he keeps their dog company, they dont like having him for long periods of time because hes just as needy as their dog. I know you arent obligated to care for a dog that isnt yours, but it would help you bond with the dog. If he keeps jumping up maybe try a kennel at first. Challenging for sure when polar opposites. And still hurts. :( any advice? Current relationshipboyfriend moves in, we get engaged, a year later I finally break down and find him a dog It broke his heart that the place I had by myself would only allow my cat so when we moved he got his dog. If your significant other is so inconsiderate that they tolerate an out of control dog, so rude that no one can have fun when the dog is around, then that is a character flaw of that person. I will say he is really good at caring for her and feeding her.. but also thinks she is toy take out when he see fit and then when she ask up doesnt know when to play and not knowing the difference and then gets yelled at.. out of control I can handle most.. saddens me.. .. >90% of rabies vaccinations are effective, and, a rabid animal would have to have bit your pet. Pets are not disposable. And the point is that we soon might be go live on our (as we are staying with friends until we can financially afford to live on our own), and of course he wants his dogs! I said I knew he wasnt keen on yappy, exuberant dogs but having seen him fuss and cuddle my parents dogs and my friends puppy, how could I think he was scared of them? Forgive me when I say this but as soon as I finally was able to graba hold of him I immediately ran inside the apartment, and started to hit him on his bum bum and yell at him! The second cat is his moms and the cat is the most annoying cat ever, the cats been in diapers his whole life.. but he is perfectly capable of going to the litter box he even trys to go while hes wearing his diaper my boyfriends mom changes that cats diaper on the same counter she prepares food with out disinfecting it.. when i addressed my boyfriend he claimed she does.. So I googled my gf wont get rid of her dog and ended up here. Sometimes when I think my 10 month old daughter is bored and suggest putting her in her walker, he says not yet , give him some time to clean up the dogs pee pee paper grr. A disagreement about pets doesnt have to spell the end of your relationship, but it may require that each of you make some accommodations. Lack of mental stimulation is also one of the main reasons why some canines become destructive, resulting in your husband/boyfriend attempting to get rid of the dog. She hardly barks and does not defecate or urinate in the home. raise your kids to love and respect animals but making them a sibling, i think not. The other, well, really only second rate by comparison. The only thing she would listen to at first was sit. HOLD YOUR OWN GROUND! Weve been together 2 years, lived together for 1. Not to mention, leaving their dirty paws, feces, and drool on the couch. Im literally in a silent argument about it right now! If you want to treat an animal like a human, then maybe you should move to Utah and marry them. Anyway, as I was feeding the baby I hear my dog whining which I know means he needs to go out. I havent mentioned amy of this to him because i think it sounds petty. Sometimes I feel like I am the odd one out now. I am so sorry that so many are having a terrible time with their pets and partners. I have been an asthmatic all my life and have many medications because of it. Then I asked if he had to choose between me and the dog he said the dog. He has had them about 8 years now. Still not the worst part, many days there is s*** in that room and on many occasions he has stepped in it and spread it all down the hallway. I cant help that, he was like that when he came to me from his last family. Im at the point I cant even stand to be around her anymore. I could weave sweaters with her shedding, plus I vacuum weekly. Youre just asking for it t be spoiled and act out and youll never get respect or your SO wont especially. You are prioritizing the dog over boyfriend/husband. He also has this really sweet tempered dog that he adores. I would have to draw the line at having dogs in the bed with me. Many people just dont like that. The dog sticks up everything, no matter how many times you groom him. The dog is bored. The huge red flag: a couple of weeks into our relationship my partner said he had to tell me a secret and that he hoped I would understand. She made arrangements for her mother to take the dog when she came out to visit last week. I let her out first thing in the morning but if I dont wake up early enough she just goes. Big dogs are messy and hairy and require even more care and exercise, but there are good dog hair vacuums and grooming helps a lot too. ), Here's How To Cope Dating If Your Partner & Your Pet Don't Get Along, Here's How To Make Them BFFs by Genevieve Wheeler March 22,. Its way better to put the dog on a leash and walk. People dont stick their noses up or will leave if their partner makes a big emotional sacrifice for you. I would never ask my partner to sacrifice something incredibly important to them. But they always had strict boundaries, training and manners. We had discussed very thoroughly prior to living together that the house will need to be cleaned often and upkept to minimize as much as possible the hair. i cant seem to find any (or very little) help for the person who does not own the pet. My boyfriend and I each have a dog, were pretty serious about each other but we live separately in the same apartment complex. Amen! I have tried so hard to acclimate to her, but I feel deep resentment that is only getting worse. Im not a dog person to begin with so I absolutely HATE to come home just to find new holes and new destruction. So, lets see what you can do about this. This dog I have runs Outd lives. But take a moment and step back to look at the situation overall. Taking care of an animal is a good way to gauge how well you work as a team and to find out what makes your partner tick. Basically, my girlfriend does not have the ability to create boundaries or is willing to instill some discipline with the dog. I used to love dogs, never again. He works on his own time and has more than enough time and energy to take care of her properly. Not a fan of big dogs at all. Like I was abusing the dog! The dog is very sweet and pretty well-behaved with me. I am a fairly good dog trainer, (my own opinion) but puppies need time to grow, to explore, and to get into things, that they shouldnt, in order to learn. Now that Im almost 7 months pregnant I just get irritated with her. Hello Lex, It is protecting a member of its pack. In other words they just arrived without my agreement. She sits between your legs staring at you while you eat. I im not sure if its an indoor or outdoor dog. The dog has health issues and a husband/boyfriend. But, we gave both dogs a room to stay in last night(after several hrs of barking to get into our bedroom) he finally finally fell asleep in his own bed. None of the begging nonsense excessive unnecessary barking etcfast forward. He never ever listens and never obeys! I actually love and enjoy animals, but Educate yourself about their shedding: You should have a sufficient awareness regarding whats normal and whats abnormal. They have a gate separating the sides of the house but tonight the dog broke through it. A year later, I was asked to foster for a short while a blind cat called Pheobe and my boyfriend, now husband, reluctantly agreed. We have had discussions that he still wants to sleep with his dogs, while he knows how i feel about that. You may find that one of you is simply less in love with your pets than the other. Dog urinates on my bed which I dont sleep in anymore. I grew from loving him to hating him! If the dog is still a puppy, you can work on house training. Its just too much time with him even if he is doing his own thing parts of the day. Im not sure what to do at this point, most angry pet owners will just say to leAve or end it. Im so happy I found this forum and to know that Im not alone! Im not without feelings but theres no telling how long the dog could live. I absolutely adore children, do nit compare them to dogs. Everything you have said is exactly how I feel 100%. I dont understand why she even has him if she doesnt want to do anything with him. But also, I dont want to resent the dog because of his actions because that isnt fair to her. I have not ever hated dogs. She does only what he has allowed all this time because of how his past relationships have gone. When she arrived she was on the couch. Well. If you want to change the way you do something with your petsfor example, allowing Fido to sleep in the bed or taking more frequent walks with your pet and your partnertalk to your partner before taking the plunge rather than making a decision and expecting him or her to abide by it. I did not even respond to that stupid. Currently I am attempting to see if my family would be willing to take them in. Im sure this isnt the answer you want to hear but its the answer you already know: its time to move on. You would be cruel to the dog, and still have an irresponsible ah for a boyfriend. Dogs only want to please their master and its up to you to spend the money or Time to learn how. Some people regard these dogs over their human companion which I think is absolutely disgusting. I broke up with him because I saw no possible way for this to work, and I didnt want to force him to choose between me and the dog. How do we work on this, she wont compromise. If you cant fix that, then yes, you should break up. Its not that I dont like animals, but I have no desire of them to be in my house and definitely not in my bed. If having an indoor cat or a dog that sleeps in your bed is important to you, youll need to ensure your partner shares these values or risk ending up in conflict. My yorkie Rocky being one of them. As for me and the dog, we still dont get along, Im trying to make it work but she tends to nip and Yelp at me, so we just leave each other alone. My boyfriend has an annoying Jack Russell, that my 9 year old daughter loves & I do at times . I think the real issue is over the past 13 years my partner has had it one way and his way, and now that I request things be different he finds the demands unreasonable and defends his dog. My husband loves our dogs as much as I do. Maybe he is jealous, I dont know. Now dont get me wrong I have my human company and my furry company. I need to do something. I also told him that we are never close like we used to be, that instead of reaching for me, you reach for the dog. I truly in all my heart believe that people who choose animal relationships over human ones need therapy. The damn creature will get up at ungodly hours to insist on being brought down, once s*** in the house and proceeded to smear the entire living room and kitchen with its poop laden paws, keeps stealing water from my dogs water bowl, constantly tries to steal food from the trash bin and kitchen shelves. I have to set this up for you. Wife of 31 years loves her three small little yippers. He says I cant understand how he feels because I dont like dogs. I wish you all the best and will be sendin prayers your way! But I do treat my dogs as my children, the reason is simple, I cannot have children. He said that all he did was pick him up to take him outside. Im at the point of getting an apartment because at this point I dream of living in a home without animals. Its all good in theory and they always say Well take care of them Well pick up the poop ya right, been there done that not doing it anymore. Shes also not fixed so when she has her menstrual cycle she will bleed spots all over the home. Shes actually part min pin and part Doxie. Consult your veterinarian: Its always better to chat with your veterinarian in order to make sure if there is any health-related issue that triggers this lousy behavior. This was her thing). The main reason why does your dog misbehaves quite often could be a lack of basic obedience training. She has told me and her parents that she feels the same way. I believe he got his dog to look posh. I cant make any comments about his dog because he always defends Nd puts the dog above me. The thought of it was hurting our relationship until it ultimately ended. if the puppy pees I get yelled at. Teach it right and it will learn respect and maybe he wont be jealous anymore if he is then leAve him. Being dropped off at the shelter can be traumatizing for a pet. Dump the bf and get with someone who lives your dog as much as you do! Absolutely the worst decision I have ever made to try to share my home with this thing that has absolutely NO RULES whatsoever for how it behaves. I finally had to put her to sleep and say goodbye. smh! These are lazy pet owners who just dont want to take the time to train/socialize their animals. The dogs will probably always come first. Even tho hes an chow chow, hes very sweet to other dogs and her. 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